8 STEPS TO STARTING A NEW LIFE

 There is a time when our past seems too trivial, vague or tragic to continue with it into our present and future.  We feel tired and want to give up, if we have not already. Things are not working out as they should and the future seems bleak. We may have already sank into depression and want to cut off the little life we are hanging on because it feels too painful...

LETS STOP RIGHT THERE!!!

It's already bad enough as it is. What do we do next? The past has had its fair share of disappointments but we should remember as it has always been put, do not let your past define your future. So how do we start?

Here are some ways;

1. FIX IT, yes, fix your old life where there is need for fixing in order that it does not haunt you in the future. Leave a clean past if you want a clean future.

2. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT, you want a new life but do you know what you want it to be like? Have you envisioned it? If not, you can start to dream it right now.

3. SET A DEADLINE, when do you want your new life to start? And what sign in your life will assure you, a new life has began? What will be your starting or changing point?

4. LEARN FROM OTHERS. Consider signing up for THE EXPERIENCE PROJECT and get acquainted with people facing a similar situation as you. Highly motivating and encouraging community.

5. GATHER YOUR RESOURCES, make sure you have enough revenue, resources and even motivation to encourage you into your new life. The change may come with obstacles but be ready to face them because in the end it will all be worth it!

6. SET GUIDELINES. What was in your old life that you do not want to repeat in your new life? How will you fight the temptation to go back to your old life which was your comfort zone even though not so comfortable?

7. DREAM , DREAM, DREAM. How will you know your dreams have come true unless you dreamed them? To dream is important in order for you to know if things have worked out the way you wanted. 

8. EXTRA BAGGAGE? What is there from your past that you wish to carry into your new beginning? For example,perhaps you would like to continue with the same job into your new life or the same relationship. This decision calls for detailed thoughts. Writing it down can help.

Is there any information you would like to add to this blog post? Have you started a new life and would like to share your experience? Feel free to comment and share.

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