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PARTNERS

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These are the organisations we partner with as well as some that we just LOVE.

BUUMBALAMBO FOUNDATION ZAMBIABuumbalambo foundation is a non profit organisation based in Zambia working to eradicate illiteracy starting with children. Their goal is to expand education awareness activities towards progressive reduction of child illiteracy. 

Website and Buumbalambo Foundation Facebook Page.




BLACK AND WHITE GERMANY & GHANABlack and White organisation in Ghana is an expansion of the German organisation to Africa. The initiative Black and White Organisation wants to create is a network for friendship called BawNetschool where schools in Africa get connected to schools in Europe.

Website and Blog.




WOMEN TALK... LITTLE GIRLS LISTEN AMERICAWomen Talk... Little Girls Listen, which one are you? WTLGL is an organisation of a growing group of strong women and the smart men that support them. Join WTLGL if you are looking for advice, support or just want to help the community you are in.

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HOW TO LIVE WITH AN ABUSIVE PERSON

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What is abuse?
Abuse is the cruel or violent treatment of a person regularly or repeatedly.

How to cope with an abusive person.
When you are living with an abusive person, it is best
to understand;

1. What type of abuse is it? Emotional, verbal, physical, sexual or any form of abuse.
2. Who is the abuse targeted to? Is it only to you, or it is also the same behavior to other people.
3. What causes the abuse? It is because of it is a personality trait or because of an addiction to maybe drugs and alcohol or is it because of someones dislike or envy of you, is it because they think you are intruding in their life or they do not like your behavior or is the behavior learned, maybe from the parents or peers?
4. Solve the underlying problem. Talk to the person about why they treat you that way. Do not be harsh or interrupt when they are talking. If they do not want to tell you, encourage them by suggesting an answer e.g does me watching the tv make you angry?, do not start by blaming them as this…

THERE IS HELP FOR YOU!

Every one has a right to seek help when in need. The biggest dilemma however is, where to seek help and whether you will actually be helped when you find that potential help. So where should we go to seek help in general?



WHERE TO SEEK HELP?????FAMILY. Well, generally family should be the first place we would seek help unless we are seeking help for them or  from them.FRIENDS. Some friends help out even more than family and if you have such a friend, hold on to them, appreciate them and even though friends help each other do not be over-dependent without recognizing the other persons needs. And be careful on this one, not everyone who says they are your friend have best intentions for you. Mentors may see ahead on what you did not see so it is best to have a mentor who leads you in the right path.MENTOR. A mentor is an adviser  someone who has gone ahead down the road and is helping to show you which way to go.PROFESSIONALS. This includes health professionals, organisations, educators,…