This story was written by Ashley Dye from the USA. If I had a dollar for the innumerable times I have been called or referred to as ‘he’, ‘him’, or ‘sir’, I would be a millionaire. Seriously, it happens so often to me that I’ve actually become accustomed to the shaming and offensive masculine pronouns. It has been happening to me since I was a kid. I grew up a tomboy, playing basketball, football, soccer and many other sports. Most of my friends were guys and the role models